It had been a very productive day following a string of very productive days. We were relaxing on our back patio.
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Well, at least I was!
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Yeah, I kept thinking about all the work I still had to do. I wanted to take some down time but my mind was still racing. I couldn’t stop thinking about all the things I needed to do. And since we work mostly from home, it wouldn’t take long to be back at work!
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Hear Mary-Lynn share the advice George gave her on The Bigg Success Show! Click the player to listen [4:35m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download
Hear Mary-Lynn share the advice George gave her on The Bigg Success Show! Click the player to listen [4:35m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download___
Synergize, don’t balance
If you’re one of our regulars, you know that we don’t think work – life balance works. It may for some people, but it doesn’t for us.
We believe in creating synergy between your personal and professional lives. It’s part of the BIGG idea behind BIGG success.
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So I was enjoying this down time. We were having a great conversation – some of it personal, some of it business.
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We’d already had a couple of ideas that we probably never would have come up with if we were trying. They flowed naturally out of the conversation. I knew that … but I still felt restless. I just couldn’t get my mind off my to-do list.
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Entrepreneurs know this feeling all too well. The work never ends. It just keeps coming. There’s never a shortage of things to get done. So sometimes it’s hard to shut off the brain.
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That’s the situation I found myself in. I felt guilty about not working because I knew I had so much to do. I couldn’t relax because I couldn’t stop thinking about it. But I wanted to enjoy some time off. Heck, I needed some time away!
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Mary-Lynn is a first time entrepreneur. I’ve been at this for a while. So as part of our journey, I’m seeing the world of entrepreneuring all over again. It’s been a real treat.
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I feel lucky because I have an experienced entrepreneur as a partner and my companion in life. You knew just what to say on this particular night, George. You helped me get past my downtime dilemma.
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I told you that you had to decide – either get away or go back to work.
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Yeah, you said that I couldn’t sit there in this dichotomy. I had to choose. But no matter what I chose, I had to take control of my own brain and not let it keep hounding me.
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That’s not an easy thing to do. I know from first-hand experience. But it’s the only way to feel good about the result. Otherwise, you feel frustration no matter what you do!
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It really helped me get over it … I started to relax.
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The funny thing is, within minutes of Mary-Lynn doing that, we came up with what we think is a great idea for BIGG Success. By letting go, we got the best of both worlds. That’s synergy! That’s BIGG success!
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What helps you shut down?
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