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	<title>Comments on: Is It Time For You To Rock And Roll? Signs That You Need To Change Careers</title>
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		<title>By: George &#38; Mary-Lynn</title>
		<link>http://biggsuccess.com/bigg-articles/time-to-rock-and-roll/comment-page-1/#comment-19756</link>
		<dc:creator>George &#38; Mary-Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Nov 2010 17:45:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ally, your situation is terrible! If you plan to stay at this place, you must do this: 

1. Begin establishing boundaries. Tell him you are uncomfortable when he says something that is offensive, sends unprofessional emails to you, requests you do something you don&#039;t want to do, and when he touches you. Make sure he knows that his behavior is bothering you and affecting your work. Document the time and date you do this, and document what you&#039;ve told him.

2. Learn about the policies available to you from your company regarding harassment, and create a plan.

3. Begin documenting all of the harassing incidents (touching, dirty jokes and comments) and &lt;strong&gt;archive those inappropriate emails&lt;/strong&gt;.

4. If his behavior doesn&#039;t change, take your documentation to an attorney to determine if you have grounds for a civil rights complaint.

5. If you are let go because you have begun standing up for yourself, take your documentation to an attorney to determine if you have grounds for a civil rights complaint.

We would also suggest that you reach out to your network. Maybe you can find a job somewhere else soon. But in the meantime, take these steps to ensure that you can work in peace! You should never have to put up with this kind of treatment.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ally, your situation is terrible! If you plan to stay at this place, you must do this: </p>
<p>1. Begin establishing boundaries. Tell him you are uncomfortable when he says something that is offensive, sends unprofessional emails to you, requests you do something you don&#8217;t want to do, and when he touches you. Make sure he knows that his behavior is bothering you and affecting your work. Document the time and date you do this, and document what you&#8217;ve told him.</p>
<p>2. Learn about the policies available to you from your company regarding harassment, and create a plan.</p>
<p>3. Begin documenting all of the harassing incidents (touching, dirty jokes and comments) and <strong>archive those inappropriate emails</strong>.</p>
<p>4. If his behavior doesn&#8217;t change, take your documentation to an attorney to determine if you have grounds for a civil rights complaint.</p>
<p>5. If you are let go because you have begun standing up for yourself, take your documentation to an attorney to determine if you have grounds for a civil rights complaint.</p>
<p>We would also suggest that you reach out to your network. Maybe you can find a job somewhere else soon. But in the meantime, take these steps to ensure that you can work in peace! You should never have to put up with this kind of treatment.</p>
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		<title>By: Ally</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Nov 2010 16:01:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i have a crazy boss. supposedly i came in as an office assistant but i ended up doing his coffee and cereal. i dont have a big problem on that. he likes to talk dirty (eg: tonite i will work at home while you&#039;re making love to your husband or emailed me about dirty jokes or pictures). sometimes, he wanted me to touch his forehead just to tell me its dry or give him a short massage to his shoulder. he massaged mine once eventhough i dont want too!! anyway, i&#039;m the only one that work, my husband is on disability. so, am i stupid if i quit the job or blind that he like to &#039;harras&#039;? he treated everyone in the office like dirt because he&#039;s the president and the owner of the company. help me...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i have a crazy boss. supposedly i came in as an office assistant but i ended up doing his coffee and cereal. i dont have a big problem on that. he likes to talk dirty (eg: tonite i will work at home while you&#8217;re making love to your husband or emailed me about dirty jokes or pictures). sometimes, he wanted me to touch his forehead just to tell me its dry or give him a short massage to his shoulder. he massaged mine once eventhough i dont want too!! anyway, i&#8217;m the only one that work, my husband is on disability. so, am i stupid if i quit the job or blind that he like to &#8216;harras&#8217;? he treated everyone in the office like dirt because he&#8217;s the president and the owner of the company. help me&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: George &#38; Mary-Lynn</title>
		<link>http://biggsuccess.com/bigg-articles/time-to-rock-and-roll/comment-page-1/#comment-19272</link>
		<dc:creator>George &#38; Mary-Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2010 13:52:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Antonette, so you know that life on your terms means you need a more stimulating job. So what are you doing, or what can you do to begin the process of transition? You know what you don&#039;t want. You know what you DO want...now GO for it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Antonette, so you know that life on your terms means you need a more stimulating job. So what are you doing, or what can you do to begin the process of transition? You know what you don&#8217;t want. You know what you DO want&#8230;now GO for it!</p>
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		<title>By: Antonette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Antonette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2010 05:42:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I want to quit my job.... It&#039;s very boring!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I want to quit my job&#8230;. It&#8217;s very boring!!!</p>
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