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How to Know Who You Are

who am I | BIGG SuccessIt’s the question mankind has asked since we moved past foraging for food every day. It’s the root question of all philosophical studies.

The question is…

Who am I?

We humans have an instinctual desire to find our true selves. And while the subject seems very complex, there’s a very simple way to discover who you really are.

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You are what you do. You do what you are.

Say it however you want, there’s one sure way to get to know a man or woman – watch their actions.

Your actions are evidence. They demonstrate who you really are, deep down inside yourself.

It’s manifestation. The invisible becomes visible.

You show the world your true self through your actions.

Where opportunity lies

If you see a person who habitually lashes out in anger, you’ve seen an individual who is angry with themselves.

If you see someone who regularly acts out of kindness, you’ve seen a person with a kind heart.

If you see a man or woman who is apathetic about their work, you’ve seen a person who doesn’t care about anything.

If you see a person who is meticulous in their work, you’ve seen a meticulous person.

Every project, every task, every interaction is an opportunity. An opportunity to discover who you really are.

If you’re happy with the discovery, great. If not, what will you do about it?

Who are they?

One thing you can do about it is think about who you spend time with. You’ve asked yourself, “Who am I?” Now ask yourself, “Who are they?”

How do you know? By what they do!

Are they up-and-comers or down-and-outers?

You won’t win in the physical world until you win in the mental arena.

And neither will they! By hanging out with them, you’ll only pull yourself down.

Your mind’s eye view

You can’t change anyone else but you can change you. So another thing to do is think about what you think about.

In your mind’s eye, do you see a future that is bigger, better and brighter or do you see things mostly the same?

Do you see yourself in control of your future? Or do you see yourself just letting fate have its way with you?

You and you alone determine how your life will turn out. You can choose to fulfill your destiny. Or you can just let the winds blow you where they may.

What’s around you?

Also consider your environment. What is it like? Is it a largely positive influence? Does it help you live up to your potential? Or do your surroundings hold you back?

What do you feed yourself?

And what do you feed yourself? We’re not talking food here. We’re talking about your mental diet. Remember, garbage in, garbage out.

Your character is manifested by your behaviors. They show who you truly are. You have to change on the inside first. The good news is that it leads to BIGG success.

Is there a change you’re having trouble making? Maybe we can help.

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What is Your Thing?

tutors-on-tv.jpgToday we introduced a new segment on The Bigg Success Show – Tutors on TV. You really might enjoy listening because we can’t fully replicate the experience in text!

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One of our favorite TV shows is How I Met Your Mother. On a recent episode, two of the characters, Barney and Marshall, were discussing that there could be more layoffs at the bank at which they both work.

Barney says he’s not worried about it because he has too much on them. But Marshall is worried.

Barney tells Marshall he needs a “thing” – something that makes him fun and well-liked. Barney points out the guy in Account Services who’s known as “The Food Guy.” There’s “Fantasy Guy”, “YouTube – Clip Guy”, and even creepy “Back Rub Guy.”

After several attempts, Marshall came up with “Sports Guy” – he ran the fantasy sports league at the office.

Although this is a comical way at looking at how to stand out, it probably isn’t going to help you keep your job. But there’s an underlying lesson that will help you build your personal brand.

A memorable characteristic

Our friend, Jay Ehret, The Marketing Guy, recently left a great comment on a show we did about personal branding. We said it was important to have a consistent persona. Jay added that it was also crucial to have at least one memorable characteristic.

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georgePeople tell me all the time that they love my laugh. It’s funny – I don’t know how to develop a good laugh. But I know when I hear anyone in my family laugh, I get a kick out of it. I guess I’m lucky enough to share the same genes.

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marylynnGeorge’s laugh makes people feel good. And he has a natural ability to make them laugh. People love that about him.

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So what about you makes you stand out? For what do people remember you? What’s your thing? It can be as simple as a handshake. You may be sincerely likable. There are a lot of possibilities.

Beyond personality

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marylynnBut it goes beyond personal characteristics. It’s also about what you’re really good at. I think I’m pretty good at audio production. I have experience, but also a real passion for it.

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georgePeople often comment about the production quality of The Bigg Success Show. I tell them Mary-Lynn gets all the credit for that. For example, she created the fun sound effect for our show today as well as all the sound you ever hear on our show.

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You may be the go-to person or the connector – you’ve got a great Rolodex. You may be the person who can lead people others can’t. Once again, there are a lot of places to find your thing.

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Finding your thing

We think you often find your thing where your passions meet your proficiencies. What do you love? What are you really good at? They’re not always the same, but they often are.

If you’re a really humble person, it may be hard to think about what your thing is. But fortunately, there’s a really good solution …

Ask!

Ask your family, friends, and closest associates what they think that thing is for you.

A bigg request

We want to do more segments of Tutors on TV. We’d love it if you help us out. Have you learned a thing or two from a TV show?

Please share that with us by leaving a comment below, calling us at 888.455.BIGG or sending us an e-mail at bigginfo@biggsuccess.com.

We thank Jay for sharing his fantastic insight with us. And we thank you so much for reading our post today.

Please join us next time when talk about sharing toys. Until then, here’s to your bigg success!

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