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		<title>The Fear That Drives Entrepreneurs to Success</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2011 13:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>George Krueger &#38; Mary-Lynn Foster</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People are driven by two competing fears – the fear of failure and the fear of not trying. Like the proverbial angel and demon sitting on your shoulder, they both send you different messages. The angel The angel tells you to maintain the status quo. Just be satisfied. Life isn’t so bad. Besides you might...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://biggsuccess.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/fear.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-4155" title="fear" src="http://biggsuccess.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/fear.jpg" alt="fear" width="195" height="100" /></a>People are driven by two competing<br />
fears – the fear of failure and the fear of not trying. Like the proverbial angel and demon sitting on your shoulder, they both send you different messages.</p>
<p><strong>The angel</strong><br />
The angel tells you to maintain the status quo. Just be satisfied. Life isn’t so bad.</p>
<p>Besides you might fail. People will laugh at you. They will say “I told you so.” says to stay put. You’ll be embarrassed.</p>
<p>So don’t take any risk. Play it safe. Accept mediocrity.</p>
<p><strong>The demon</strong><br />
On your other shoulder, there’s a demon reminding you that you deserve so much more. You’re sick and tired of being sick and tired. You just can’t take it for one more day.</p>
<p>You have to see what you can do. You have to know if you can be a BIGG success. You have to try. You cannot accept not trying anymore.</p>
<p>So go. Do it. What are you waiting for?</p>
<p><strong>The fear that drives entrepreneurs</strong><br />
The general population is driven by the fear of failure. They fantasize about a better life. But this fear keeps them from going any further.</p>
<p>For a small portion of people, the fear of not trying overwhelms the fear of failure. You reach a point where you have to go. You are ready to become an entrepreneur.</p>
<p><strong>The ultimate act of rebellion</strong><br />
Entrepreneurs say enough – enough of not having enough. Responsibility. Fulfillment. Opportunity. Money.</p>
<p>It’s different for different entrepreneurs, but the feeling is the same. It ties your guts in knots because you know you were meant to do something BIGG.<br />
You have to try. You cannot accept anything else.</p>
<p>As it turns out, the angel is a demon and the demon is an angel. The fear of failure prevents you from even getting started on the journey to BIGG success. The fear of not trying propels you to start living <a title="http://biggsuccess.com/bigg-articles/bigg-success-primer/" href="http://biggsuccess.com/bigg-articles/bigg-success-primer/" target="_blank">life on your own terms</a> now!</p>
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		<title>Overcome Self Doubt in 4 Steps</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 15:33:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>George Krueger &#38; Mary-Lynn Foster</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to overcome any and all self-doubt you may have about yourself. There are two twins within you that don&#39;t get along: self-doubt and faith. ___ ___ Today we&#8217;ll discuss 4 steps to overcome self-doubt: Talk back! Stop listening to those voices in your head that tell...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://biggsuccess.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/Volcano.jpg" border="1" alt="Volcano" hspace="10" vspace="1" width="120" align="right" />Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to overcome any and all self-doubt you may have about yourself. There are two twins within you that don&#39;t get along: self-doubt and faith.
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<p>Today we&rsquo;ll discuss 4 steps to overcome self-doubt:</p>
<h3> Talk back!</h3>
<p> Stop listening to those voices in your head that tell you things that aren&#39;t true. These demons just cloud your vision of the truth.</p>
<p> You are smart enough. Plenty of people have reached bigg success with less intelligence than you.</p>
<p> You are talented enough. Many people who have achieved extraordinary things wished they had your talents.</p>
<p> You are connected enough. You know people who know people who can help you reach bigg success. You only have to reach out to them.</p>
<p> You are educated enough. You have learned valuable lessons along the way. You&#39;re ready to show the world what you can do.<br /> <br />
<h3> Claim your entitlement</h3>
<p> You deserve bigg success. You have a purpose for being. It is your destiny. It is up to you, and you alone, to discover it, pursue it, and make it so.</p>
<p> Should you fail to do so, you hurt yourself. But it doesn&#39;t stop there. You deny the whole world the contribution you were supposed to make. You&#39;re here to change the<br /> world, at least one corner of it.</p>
<p> You must believe in yourself so you fulfill your mission.&nbsp;&nbsp;
<p>Conquer your insecurities by believing, really believing, in yourself and what you can do. Meet your fears head on and you too shall overcome.</p>
<h3>Let it erupt</h3>
<p> There have been events in your life that have quieted the volcano within you. But the volcano itself still remains.&nbsp; &nbsp;</p>
<p> It&#39;s been there all along. You can feel it. You know that there is something inside of you that needs to come out. It&#39;s been there all along.</p>
<p> It&#39;s been quietly rumbling for some time now. Now the pressure is building. You must show the world the fire within you. You must manifest the power you possess. The volcano must erupt!<br /> <br />
<h3> Showcase what you&rsquo;ve been hiding</h3>
<p> Deep down inside yourself, do you feel like something is missing? There are many wonderful things in your life. Yet you feel a sense of want.</p>
<p> You must be true to yourself to find true happiness. You have a voice that needs to be heard. Let the world hear it with a roar, not a whisper!</p>
<p> You have talent that needs to be displayed. Let the world see it vividly, not dimly.</p>
<p> Your creation will touch the world. Share it openly, not with reserve.</p>
<p> Your destiny is before you. Stop denying it to yourself. Accept your mission to find it and claim it. That&rsquo;s bigg success!
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		<title>These 5 Factors Make You a Bigg Dog</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 07:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>George Krueger &#38; Mary-Lynn Foster</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we&#8217;re wrapping up our five-part Dog Days series. Mark Twain said: &#8220;It&#8217;s not the size of the dog in the fight; it&#8217;s the size of the fight in the dog.&#8221; Bigg dogs aren&#8217;t bigg because of their size. They&#8217;re bigg because of their attitude. ___ ___ There are 5 C&#8217;s that put the fight...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://biggsuccess.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/dog_days.jpg" border="1" alt="dog_days" hspace="10" vspace="1" width="165" align="right" />Today we&rsquo;re wrapping up our five-part Dog Days series. Mark Twain said:
<p>&ldquo;It&rsquo;s not the size of the dog in the fight; it&rsquo;s the size of the fight in the dog.&rdquo;</p>
<p>Bigg dogs aren&rsquo;t bigg because of their size. They&rsquo;re bigg because of their attitude.</p>
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<p>There are 5 C&rsquo;s that put the fight in the dog:</p>
<h3>Calling</h3>
<p>Bigg dogs just know they were put on this earth to do something special. They can feel it deep in their gut. It consumes them. They have to live up to their full potential. It drives them each and every day.</p>
<h3>Courage</h3>
<p>Sure, bigg dogs have fears, but they don&rsquo;t let their fears drive them. They conquer their fears by confronting them head on. That&rsquo;s one of the first victories we experience in our quest for bigg success: victory over our fears.</p>
<h3>Confidence</h3>
<p>They have confidence that their time will come. They don&rsquo;t doubt that they will find their bigg opportunity. They know they will have their moment in the spotlight. They believe they will live their bigg dream.</p>
<p>They also have confidence that they will be ready. They know they will do whatever it takes to prepare for it. They will work harder and smarter than anyone else to be ready when their time comes.</p>
<p>For these reasons, they have confidence in themselves. They have prepared &ndash; mentally and physically &ndash; for this day that they knew would come. Now that it is here, now that the game is on the line, they want the ball. They are the go-to person and they will find a win to win.</p>
<h3>Contemplation</h3>
<p>Bigg dogs are thinkers and doers. They are always on the look out for opportunities that match their passions, preferences and proficiencies. When they see potential customers with a problem, they know they may be on to something.</p>
<p>They determine how easy these customers are to identify and reach. If it can be done, that spells opportunity.</p>
<p>Then they look at competitors. They know they don&rsquo;t want to go head to head with large companies. They also look at competitors of all sizes.</p>
<p>If there aren&rsquo;t any large companies dominating the niche and if there aren&rsquo;t too many competitors in total, they get going!</p>
<h3>Contempt</h3>
<p>They know they will face adversity. They show scorn in its face. They press on to bigg success and that what makes them bigg dogs!</p>
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<p>Thank you for reading our post. Check out the entire Dog Days series. You&#39;ll find the links below under &#39;related posts&#39;.</p>
<p>A lot of us have seen our portfolios take a huge hit. Please join us next time when we&rsquo;ll talk about investments that don&rsquo;t lose value. Until then, here&rsquo;s to your bigg success!</p>
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<p><a href="http://biggsuccess.com/2009/08/03/5-reasons-for-lack-of-progress/" title="5 Reasons for Lack of Progress">5 Reasons for Lack of Progress</a></p>
<p><a href="http://biggsuccess.com/2009/08/04/4-secrets-for-learning-new-tricks/" title="4 Secrets for Learning New Tricks">4 Secrets for Learning New Tricks</a></p>
<p><a href="http://biggsuccess.com/2009/08/05/relationships-and-the-dog-eat-dog-world/" title="Relationships and the Dog Eat Dog World">Relationships and the Dog Eat Dog World</a></p>
<p><a href="http://biggsuccess.com/2009/08/06/how-to-get-out-of-the-dog-house/" title="How to Get Out of the Dog House">How to Get Out of the Dog House</a></p>
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		<itunes:summary>Today we#8217;re wrapping up our five-part Dog Days series. Mark Twain said: #8220;It#8217;s not the size of the dog in the fight; it#8217;s the size of the fight in the dog.#8221; Bigg dogs aren#8217;t bigg because of their size. They#8217;re bigg because of their attitude. ___  ___ There are 5 C#8217;s that put the fight in the dog: Calling Bigg dogs just know they were put on this earth to do something special. They can feel it deep in their gut. It consumes them. They have to live up to their full potential. It drives them each and every day. Courage Sure, bigg dogs have fears, but they don#8217;t let their fears drive them. They conquer their fears by confronting them head on. That#8217;s one of the first victories we experience in our quest for bigg success: victory over our fears. Confidence They have confidence that their time will come. They don#8217;t doubt that they will find their bigg opportunity. They know they will have their moment in the spotlight. They believe they will live their bigg dream. They also have confidence that they will be ready. They know they will do whatever it takes to prepare for it. They will work harder and smarter than anyone else to be ready when their time comes. For these reasons, they have confidence in themselves. They have prepared #8211; mentally and physically #8211; for this day that they knew would come. Now that it is here, now that the game is on the line, they want the ball. They are the go-to person and they will find a win to win. Contemplation Bigg dogs are thinkers and doers. They are always on the look out for opportunities that match their passions, preferences and proficiencies. When they see potential customers with a problem, they know they may be on to something. They determine how easy these customers are to identify and reach. If it can be done, that spells opportunity. Then they look at competitors. They know they don#8217;t want to go head to head with large companies. They also look at competitors of all sizes. If there aren#8217;t any large companies dominating the niche and if there aren#8217;t too many competitors in total, they get going! Contempt They know they will face adversity. They show scorn in its face. They press on to bigg success and that what makes them bigg dogs! ___  	 		Get the tips and tools you need to be a BIGG success. Subscribe to the Bigg Success Weekly #8211; it#8217;s FREE!  	  ___ Thank you for reading our post. Check out the entire Dog Days series. You#39;ll find the links below under #39;related posts#39;. A lot of us have seen our portfolios take a huge hit. Please join us next time when we#8217;ll talk about investments that don#8217;t lose value. Until then, here#8217;s to your bigg success! Subscribe to The Bigg Success Show in iTunes.#160; Subscribe to the Bigg Success feed. Direct link to The Bigg Success Show audio file:  http://media.libsyn.com/media/biggsuccess/00455-080709.mp3 Related posts  5 Reasons for Lack of Progress 4 Secrets for Learning New Tricks Relationships and the Dog Eat Dog World How to Get Out of the Dog House (Image in today#39;s post by mioawee)     </itunes:summary>
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		<title>Three Levels of Freedom &#8211; Part 3</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>George Krueger &#38; Mary-Lynn Foster</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is the final installment of the three levels of freedom. First, we talked about freedom of: those basic freedoms that we who live in the developed world take for granted. Then we talked about freedom from dependence on others, addiction to things and limiting thoughts. Now we&#8217;re ready to discuss the highest level of...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://biggsuccess.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/freedom.jpg" border="1" alt="freedom" hspace="10" vspace="1" width="118" align="right" />This is the final installment of the three levels of freedom. First, we talked about <a href="http://biggsuccess.com/?page_id=1838" target="_blank" title="Bigg Success: Three Levels of Freedom - Part 1">freedom of</a>: those basic freedoms that we who live in the developed world take for granted.
<p>Then we talked about <a href="http://biggsuccess.com/?page_id=1840" target="_blank" title="Bigg Success: Three Levels of Freedom - Part 2">freedom from</a> dependence on others, addiction to things and limiting thoughts. Now we&rsquo;re ready to discuss the highest level of freedom: freedom to.</p>
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<h3>Freedom to live your life on your own terms</h3>
<p>This is what Bigg Success is all about. It&rsquo;s the freedom to live your life on your own terms.</p>
<p>As we get freedom from, our confidence grows. We conquer our fears one at a time.  We start a new dialog with ourselves. We tell ourselves we do deserve better. We tell ourselves we will do better. We stop listening to what other people say or worrying about what they think.</p>
<p>It&rsquo;s liberating.</p>
<p>Who cares that your neighbor just bought a hot little sports car?</p>
<p>Not you. You have bigg plans and a new car isn&rsquo;t part of them right now.</p>
<p>Who cares that your college classmate just got a great promotion?</p>
<p>Not you. You have your own bigg dream to pursue.</p>
<p>You&rsquo;re the entrepreneur of a very important enterprise &ndash; your life. You call the shots. Successful entrepreneurs find a way to press on, to endure. You&rsquo;ll do whatever it takes &ndash; as long as it&rsquo;s legal and ethical &ndash; to live your life on your own terms.</p>
<p>Every day, you&rsquo;re free to give it all you have. And that&rsquo;s a level of success you can revel in. At the end of the day, you can be at peace with yourself if you&rsquo;ve given your all that day to move you toward the life you dream of living.</p>
<p>Until tomorrow.</p>
<p>Bigg goal-getters are usually happy, but they&rsquo;re never content. Be happy today while eagerly anticipating all the bigg things you will accomplish tomorrow.</p>
<h3>Freedom to relish in the success of others</h3>
<p>You also have the freedom to help other people live their life on their own terms. But there&rsquo;s a step in between.</p>
<p>As we get beyond our limiting thoughts, as we start to conquer our fears one by one, as we move past the freedom from level, we gain that confidence that is so crucial to bigg success.</p>
<p>The way we think starts to change. We see the potential within us. We come to appreciate our uniqueness.</p>
<p>Small-minded people get jealous of others and their achievements. As a bigg thinker, you welcome the success of others. You applaud it. You feel the freedom to relish in it.</p>
<h3>Freedom to help others live their lives on their own terms</h3>
<p>Now you&rsquo;re ready for the highest level of freedom to &ndash; freedom to help others live their lives on their own terms. You&rsquo;re ready find synergies with other people.</p>
<p>You can look for ways to combine your respective strengths while shoring up your shortcomings. You know that by working together, you can accomplish far more than either of you can accomplish by yourselves.</p>
<p>The reward? You both reach bigg success even faster!</p>
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<p><a href="http://biggsuccess.com/2009/06/29/three-levels-of-freedom-part-1/" title="Three Levels of Freedom &#8211; Part 1">Three Levels of Freedom &#8211; Part 1</a></p>
<p><a href="http://biggsuccess.com/2009/06/30/three-levels-of-freedom-part-2/" title="Three Levels of Freedom &#8211; Part 2">Three Levels of Freedom &#8211; Part 2</a> </p>
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		<itunes:summary>This is the final installment of the three levels of freedom. First, we talked about freedom of: those basic freedoms that we who live in the developed world take for granted. Then we talked about freedom from dependence on others, addiction to things and limiting thoughts. Now we#8217;re ready to discuss the highest level of freedom: freedom to. ___  ___ Freedom to live your life on your own terms This is what Bigg Success is all about. It#8217;s the freedom to live your life on your own terms. As we get freedom from, our confidence grows. We conquer our fears one at a time.  We start a new dialog with ourselves. We tell ourselves we do deserve better. We tell ourselves we will do better. We stop listening to what other people say or worrying about what they think. It#8217;s liberating. Who cares that your neighbor just bought a hot little sports car? Not you. You have bigg plans and a new car isn#8217;t part of them right now. Who cares that your college classmate just got a great promotion? Not you. You have your own bigg dream to pursue. You#8217;re the entrepreneur of a very important enterprise #8211; your life. You call the shots. Successful entrepreneurs find a way to press on, to endure. You#8217;ll do whatever it takes #8211; as long as it#8217;s legal and ethical #8211; to live your life on your own terms. Every day, you#8217;re free to give it all you have. And that#8217;s a level of success you can revel in. At the end of the day, you can be at peace with yourself if you#8217;ve given your all that day to move you toward the life you dream of living. Until tomorrow. Bigg goal-getters are usually happy, but they#8217;re never content. Be happy today while eagerly anticipating all the bigg things you will accomplish tomorrow. Freedom to relish in the success of others You also have the freedom to help other people live their life on their own terms. But there#8217;s a step in between. As we get beyond our limiting thoughts, as we start to conquer our fears one by one, as we move past the freedom from level, we gain that confidence that is so crucial to bigg success. The way we think starts to change. We see the potential within us. We come to appreciate our uniqueness. Small-minded people get jealous of others and their achievements. As a bigg thinker, you welcome the success of others. You applaud it. You feel the freedom to relish in it. Freedom to help others live their lives on their own terms Now you#8217;re ready for the highest level of freedom to #8211; freedom to help others live their lives on their own terms. You#8217;re ready find synergies with other people. You can look for ways to combine your respective strengths while shoring up your shortcomings. You know that by working together, you can accomplish far more than either of you can accomplish by yourselves. The reward? You both reach bigg success even faster! ___  	 		Would you like more tips and tools to live your life on your own terms? Subscribe to the Bigg Success Weekly #8211; it#8217;s FREE!  	  ___ Thank you so much for reading our post today. Please join us next time as we continue this discussion of freedom. We#8217;ll talk about financial freedom. Until then, here#8217;s to your bigg success! Subscribe to The Bigg Success Show in iTunes.#160; Subscribe to the Bigg Success feed. Direct link to The Bigg Success Show audio file:  http://media.libsyn.com/media/biggsuccess/00428-070109.mp3 Related posts  Three Levels of Freedom #8211; Part 1 Three Levels of Freedom #8211; Part 2  (Image in today#39;s post by svilen001)   </itunes:summary>
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		<title>Battle Scarred vs. Battle Scared</title>
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		<dc:creator>George Krueger &#38; Mary-Lynn Foster</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#8217;re probably familiar with the term &#8220;battle scarred,&#8221; which refers to the scars from wounds received in combat. Most of us are fortunate to not have to engage in real warfare where the scars are visible (i.e. physical) and invisible (i.e. mental). Our battles are more esoteric so our &#8220;scars&#8221; tend to be only the...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://biggsuccess.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/battle.jpg" border="1" alt="battle" hspace="10" vspace="1" width="150" align="right" /> You&rsquo;re probably familiar with the term &ldquo;battle scarred,&rdquo; which refers to the scars from wounds received in combat. Most of us are fortunate to not have to engage in real warfare where the scars are visible (i.e. physical) and invisible (i.e. mental). Our battles are more esoteric so our &ldquo;scars&rdquo; tend to be only the second kind &ndash; mental.
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<p>Today we want to talk about a different word &ndash; battle scared. It&rsquo;s amazing what a difference that one &ldquo;r&rdquo; can make.</p>
<p>By our definition, &ldquo;battle scared&rdquo; means that the damage done in combat is so severe that the injured party doesn&rsquo;t push on.</p>
<div align="center"> <strong>It&rsquo;s possible to be battle scarred without becoming battle scared.<br /> </strong></div>
<p> People who are battle scarred start with an open wound that leaves only a scar over time. For people who are battle scared, it&rsquo;s as if the wound never closes.</p>
<p> Mentally, the battle is still fresh in their mind. So they&rsquo;re unable to fight again today. Two people can engage in the same battle and experience the same thing. One pushes on to fight another day (the battle scarred) while the other can&rsquo;t live with the memories of the battle (the battle scared). </p>
<h3> An example: the recent financial crisis</h3>
<p> We have an example of a battle recently &ndash; the financial troubles rolling through the economies of the developed world. We all may feel a little battle scared at this point because it is still so fresh in all of our minds. It&rsquo;s important to pause and reflect so we&rsquo;re only left with the scars of the battle.</p>
<p> <strong>Learn the proper lessons</strong><br /> <font color="#ff0000">&ldquo;Stocks are too risky.&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;Playing the stock market is no different than gambling at a casino.&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;It&rsquo;s the government&rsquo;s fault.&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;It&rsquo;s the banks&rsquo; fault.&rdquo;</font></p>
<p> These are the wrong lessons to takeaway from this battle. They are the reactions of the battle scared.</p>
<p> <font color="#006600">&ldquo;I took on too much debt.&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;I spent more than I took in.&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;I didn&rsquo;t create a safety net for myself.&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;I focused too much on what I wanted now and not enough on my future.&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;I should have seen that stocks were risky.&rdquo;</font></p>
<p> These are the right lessons to learn from this calamity. The battle scarred will come away with these things in mind.</p>
<p> <strong>Make the proper adjustments.</strong><br /> <font color="#ff0000">&ldquo;I&rsquo;m going to close out my 401(k).&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;I&rsquo;m never going to invest in stocks again; they&rsquo;re too risky.&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;I won&rsquo;t take any risk ever again.&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;You can&rsquo;t trust anyone.&rdquo;</font></p>
<p> These knee jerk reactions are common among the battle scared.<br /> <font color="#006600"><br /> &ldquo;I&rsquo;m going to have an emergency stash.&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;I&rsquo;m going to get out of debt.&rdquo;<br /> &ldquo;I&rsquo;m going to learn to allocate my portfolio so I get decent returns for the risk I&rsquo;m taking.&rdquo;</font></p>
<p> The battle scarred will make adjustments, but they won&rsquo;t go from one extreme to another.<br /> <strong><br /> Giving up gets you nowhere</strong><br /> We have to keep fighting. We have to learn the right things from every battle so we can make the correct adjustments. We should gain wisdom from the battles we fight. That wisdom will help us win the war faster with more certainty.</p>
<p> If we become battle scared, we fail. We fail to take advantage of the opportunities that will present themselves in the coming days. We fail to reach our full potential. We must resolve to learn from our battles and make the adjustments necessary to win the next one.<br /> 
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		<itunes:subtitle>You#8217;re probably familiar with the term #8220;battle scarred,#8221; which refers to the scars from wounds received in combat. Most of us are fortunate to ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>You#8217;re probably familiar with the term #8220;battle scarred,#8221; which refers to the scars from wounds received in combat. Most of us are fortunate to not have to engage in real warfare where the scars are visible (i.e. physical) and invisible (i.e. mental). Our battles are more esoteric so our #8220;scars#8221; tend to be only the second kind #8211; mental. ___  ___ Today we want to talk about a different word #8211; battle scared. It#8217;s amazing what a difference that one #8220;r#8221; can make. By our definition, #8220;battle scared#8221; means that the damage done in combat is so severe that the injured party doesn#8217;t push on.    It#8217;s possible to be battle scarred without becoming battle scared.   People who are battle scarred start with an open wound that leaves only a scar over time. For people who are battle scared, it#8217;s as if the wound never closes.  Mentally, the battle is still fresh in their mind. So they#8217;re unable to fight again today. Two people can engage in the same battle and experience the same thing. One pushes on to fight another day (the battle scarred) while the other can#8217;t live with the memories of the battle (the battle scared).   An example: the recent financial crisis We have an example of a battle recently #8211; the financial troubles rolling through the economies of the developed world. We all may feel a little battle scared at this point because it is still so fresh in all of our minds. It#8217;s important to pause and reflect so we#8217;re only left with the scars of the battle.  Learn the proper lessons #8220;Stocks are too risky.#8221; #8220;Playing the stock market is no different than gambling at a casino.#8221; #8220;It#8217;s the government#8217;s fault.#8221; #8220;It#8217;s the banks#8217; fault.#8221;  These are the wrong lessons to takeaway from this battle. They are the reactions of the battle scared.  #8220;I took on too much debt.#8221; #8220;I spent more than I took in.#8221; #8220;I didn#8217;t create a safety net for myself.#8221; #8220;I focused too much on what I wanted now and not enough on my future.#8221; #8220;I should have seen that stocks were risky.#8221;  These are the right lessons to learn from this calamity. The battle scarred will come away with these things in mind.  Make the proper adjustments. #8220;I#8217;m going to close out my 401(k).#8221; #8220;I#8217;m never going to invest in stocks again; they#8217;re too risky.#8221; #8220;I won#8217;t take any risk ever again.#8221; #8220;You can#8217;t trust anyone.#8221;  These knee jerk reactions are common among the battle scared.  #8220;I#8217;m going to have an emergency stash.#8221; #8220;I#8217;m going to get out of debt.#8221; #8220;I#8217;m going to learn to allocate my portfolio so I get decent returns for the risk I#8217;m taking.#8221;  The battle scarred will make adjustments, but they won#8217;t go from one extreme to another.  Giving up gets you nowhere We have to keep fighting. We have to learn the right things from every battle so we can make the correct adjustments. We should gain wisdom from the battles we fight. That wisdom will help us win the war faster with more certainty.  If we become battle scared, we fail. We fail to take advantage of the opportunities that will present themselves in the coming days. We fail to reach our full potential. We must resolve to learn from our battles and make the adjustments necessary to win the next one. ___  	 		Get the tips and tools you need to be a BIGG success! Subscribe to the Bigg Success Weekly #8211; it#8217;s FREE!  	  ___ We#8217;re so glad you stopped by today! Come back next time to learn how to get on the radio as an expert in your field. Until then, here#8217;s to your bigg success! Subscribe to   The Bigg Success Show in iTunes.#160; Subscribe to the Bigg Success feed. Direct link   to The Bigg Success Show audio file:  http://media.libsyn.com/me</itunes:summary>
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