WAIT to Avoid Communication Quirks
Communication is an interesting creature. It seems simple. Yet it’s incredibly complex.
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I’m not trying to be rude, George, but it’s just talking and listening. How complex is that?
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Obviously it’s more than just speaking and listening, Mary-Lynn. Effective communication requires a meeting of two or more minds. A message has to be relayed and received. That’s more complex than many people think.
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Trust me George, you’re making it too complicated. You decide on your message. You relay it. It is received. Voila, communication!
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Think about it Mary-Lynn. First you have to decide on the message you want to convey. Then you have to think about your audience. You must state your message so your audience understands it. Then you have to hope your audience is receptive to your message. You have to find a way to engage them.
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As I’ve said before, it’s just talking and listening. As long as both parties understand that, communication is simple.
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To be honest, Mary-Lynn, I think communication is simple too, on the surface. It’s executing it effectively that is difficult.
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To make a long story short, George, I was just playing with you. I think you’re right. Communication can be very complex.
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Sometimes our quirks get in the way of the message. We send signals that we may not intend to send as you can see from the above conversation.
We could go through each of these one by one but you might accuse us of having a communication quirk if we did!
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WAIT …
So let’s get right into a technique we picked up along the way that keeps us from saying things we don’t need to say.
In many cases, these goofy little sayings are just a bridge to what we really want to say. They’re fillers that are unnecessary.
So the next time you’re embroiled in a conversation, WAIT. WAIT is an acronym for: Why Am I Talking?
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When I’m getting ready to say something, I just WAIT. I ask myself if I really need to say it. I think about how I will say it. It’s not fool-proof so I still say something foolish sometimes, but it’s really helped me communicate better.
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It doesn’t need to apply to just oral discussions. You may WAIT when you’re writing an e-mail. Just ask yourself: Why Am I Typing?
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In some cases, I discard the e-mail altogether. In other cases, it helps me really shorten it up. I still get carried away sometimes, but at least I get carried away consciously!
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How about this one: Why Am I Texting?
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This keeps me from feeling like I always have to respond one more time. It helps me look for that natural end to the conversation.
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Speaking of ends of conversations, we’ve reached it on this post. WAIT and you’ll avoid communication quirks that send the wrong signal. WAIT for bigg success!
What communication quirks drive you crazy?
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