We did another installment of Tutors on TV on the show today. Here’s a summary of the conversation:
Today we’re going to talk about the new TV show, Men of a Certain Age.
I think I can speak with authority about Men of a Certain Age because I’m a man of that certain age to which they’re referring!
We are bigg fans of this show. In case you haven’t seen it yet, it’s centered around three friends in their late forties. It stars Ray Romano of Everybody Loves Raymond fame, Scott Bakula best known for Quantum Leap and Andre Braugher from the movie Glory and the TV series Homicide: Life on the Streets.
They recently wrapped up their first season. The three friends gather together and Scott Bakula’s character is going through a crisis.
He feels like his life is meaningless.
His career is in shambles.
He has no family.
He feels like he’s wasted thirty years.
Ray Ramano’s character brings up a quote from Joseph Addison:
“The three grand essentials of happiness are something to do, something to love and something to hope for.”
Carol Lynn Pearson said, “Happiness doesn’t come from doing what we like to do, but from liking what we have to do.”
You hear a lot of talk about pursuing your passion these days. We bring it up here at Bigg Success fairly frequently. Passion has its place.
But even when you’re doing what you love, there are parts of it that are tedious. Do it – to the best of your ability – and you’ll be happy.
Our friend Jim Bouchard, who has a great new book that’s about to be released called Think Like a Black Belt, says: “It’s simple but not easy.”
Have you ever noticed that you get the most satisfaction from an achievement that wasn’t easy?
If it’s easy, we take it for granted.
When we have to put our blood, sweat and tears into it, we relish in the accomplishment.
So treasure the price you have to pay for bigg success and bigg success will be that much sweeter!
G.W. Von Leibnitz said: “To love is to place our happiness in the happiness of another.”
There are two ways to take that quote:
- You have to love someone in order to be happy.
We disagree with that. That’s the myth that Hollywood puts out there.
Jesus said, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” In order to truly love someone else, you have to love yourself first.
- Love means making someone else happy so you will be happy.
Love is a verb. It implies action.
And it’s also very entrepreneurial. Successful entrepreneurs focus on making their customers happy by helping them solve a problem. Then the entrepreneur will be rewarded; the entrepreneur will be happy.
Bigg success is about entrepreneuring your life. That’s the tie-in.
Dale Carnegie said, “It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.”
Isn’t that powerful?
Do you think you will be a failure? You’re right.
Do you think you will be a bigg success? You will be!
Thinking alone won’t get your there. But hope is part of the foundation of your future success. You can be happy today because you think you will be successful tomorrow.
So happiness is not an external event.
It is an internal condition resulting from choices.
Choose action rather than inaction.
Choose affection rather than apathy.
Choose to dream rather than despair.
The great Ben Franklin said: “The Constitution only gives people the right to pursue happiness. You have to catch it yourself.” (*UPDATE: See comment & correction below).
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