Do you have a decision to make? Are you unable to make decisions? Here’s a tactic we heard on the To the Lost episode of Boardwalk Empire:
Flip a coin.
Whether it comes up heads or tails barely matters. What does matter is how you feel when it’s in the air. What are you hoping for?
(Unless you usually get it wrong. Then you may want to use George Costanza’s technique.)
Whatever you do, there’s an important concept underlying these methods. It’s a systematic way to apply your intuition. Once you grasp it, it will help you make decisions in life.
Frame your options as a binary choice: heads or tails, yes or no, this or that, either or.
For example, let’s say you want to start a business. One question you may ask is when.
So get out your coin. Heads you’ll go into business now. Tails you’ll wait.
Flip the coin in the air. Do you feel a knot in your stomach? Which side do you want to come up?
More importantly, don’t stop there. Take the hoped-for answer and expand on it. Create a series of choices:
Part-time or full-time? Online or off? Start or buy? Independent or franchise?
Of course, the choices will be determined in part by the type of business you want to own. Step-by-step, you’re creating a decision tree.
By getting it on paper, you’ll be able to quickly see how choices now affect options later. You can weigh what you’re giving up against what you’re getting. Then you’ll be able to make a decision that leads to BIGG success!