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Are You Riding a Teeter Totter or a Tilt-A-Whirl Through Life?

teeter-totter

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Spring is finally here. Kids are on the playground. Fair season is coming.

It has us thinking about teeter totters, Tilt-A-Whirls and work-life balance.

Are you riding a teeter totter through life?
At times, work is up. At other times, work is down and life is up.

You’re able to separate your personal and professional worlds.

You go to work. You do your job.

You go home. You enjoy time with family and friends. You engage in a hobby.

Work stays at work. Home stays at home. No blending of the two.

Up and down you go – day after day, week after week. It’s an enjoyable way to go through life.

tilt-a-whirl

Are you riding a Tilt-A-Whirl through life?
You rock back and forth between your personal and professional lives.

Occasionally, you may spin to the right. Round and round you go. You may even lean in to make it go faster.

You may go back to rocking back and forth slowly again. Then you may spin to the right again…or to the left.

Work may demand most of your time for a period of time. Then you ease back. At other times, you may focus on your personal world.

It’s quite a ride.

Of course, spin too much, too fast and you’ll get dizzy. You won’t be able to see clearly. Even worse, you may get sick.

But if you keep it under control, the Tilt-A-Whirl can be a fun ride.

Work-life balance versus life flow
Work-life balance, as represented by the teeter totter, has been the accepted goal for decades. It still works for many people.

If you’re one of them, more power to you.

But today, we’re connected 24/7 with our smartphones and tablets. The traditional view of work-life balance is increasingly elusive.

Many people are finding that life flow is a better concept now.

We count ourselves among them. So we’ve abandoned the teeter totter for the Tilt-A-Whirl.

This means flowing seamlessly between your personal and professional worlds.

The problem is many people feel guilty about working when they’re supposed to be playing or vice versa. So the starting point is:

Give yourself permission to flow back and forth.

That’s life on your own terms! That’s BIGG success.

Which ride suits you better – the teeter totter or the Tilt-A-Whirl?

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Success as an Entrepreneur is NOT a Marathon

Run races for BIGG SuccessYou often hear people say that the race for BIGG success as an entrepreneur is a marathon. We think they’re wrong.

In fact, we don’t think it’s a race at all. You don’t run one race – you run races. Plural.

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A series of sprints

And they’re not marathons, they’re sprints. You reach BIGG success as an entrepreneur by running a series of sprints.

You sprint every day. You strive to get to the finish line in the fastest time possible. Only then – unlike a sprinter who has just completed a race in the athletic world – you line up for another one!

Sure, you may take a short break between races, but you’re driven. You have more work you love to do. So you keep pushing day after day, from one sprint to another.

A money management principle applied to time management

Now there’s a reason why we think making this distinction – between a marathon and a series of sprints – is important. It has to do with conditioning.

Don’t train for a slow, steady, long race. Prepare yourself for fast, hard-charging bursts!

So rather than run – run – run – rest, think run – rest – run – rest.

This is a concept we can apply from money management to time management. It’s called duration matching.

When dealing with money, you want to match the duration of your debt to the expected life of the asset that debt is financing. Do something similar with your time.

If you’re not running a marathon, if you’re in a series of sprints, take frequent, short breaks rather than longer ones. Get away from your work every hour or two.

An important part of rest

But just as important as when you rest is how you rest. The BIGG idea behind BIGG success is synergy.

The right rest at the right time ramps up your running ability.

So while you get the rest you need, you don’t give up anything for it. In fact, quite the opposite – you get even more done.

If you’re a long-time reader, you know we believe in life blend. And this run – rest concept is part of that. You need variety. It’s up to you what it is, but it’s a custom blend.

If it works for you, it works! For example:

  • We often take quick breaks where stand up, stretch our legs and clue each other in to what we’re working on. One of us may have an idea the other hadn’t thought about.
  • We often find that when we step away from my desk for just a minute or two – to grab a cup of coffee, walk around or get outside – it often helps us get unstuck.
  • Another thing we’re fitting into the blend is to make sure we exercise. It doesn’t mean the brain shuts off. It just means we work the body too.
  • But sometimes shutting the brain off is just the thing. Research
    published in
    Psychological Science suggests that mindless tasks which allow your thoughts to roam can be springboards for creative thinking.

Participants in the study were presented with a creative challenge. Immediately after, the first group performed an intellectually demanding task while a second group did an undemanding one.

The researchers concluded that doing a mindless task allows your brain to wander more.

So next time you get stuck – mop the floor, file away some papers or clean off your desk.

Take frequent, short rest breaks so you can keep sprinting to BIGG success!

What do you think? Is the race for success a marathon or a series of sprints? How often do you rest?

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