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Time flies when reaching for BIGG Success

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Time flies when reaching for BIGG Success

The week before last was a strange week for us. We’ll tell you about that in just a minute. But first, we want to make sure you’re aware of this…

We are about to announce the most exciting thing we’ve ever done at BIGG Success. We’ll tell our newsletter subscribers first.

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The time paradox for BIGG goal-getters

Back to the odd week…maybe you can relate.

Monday seemed like it should have been Sunday if not Saturday.

We had worked both days over the weekend. We’re pushing to get everything ready for the BIGG announcement we mentioned above.

So the start of the week came too soon.

However, by the close of business on Friday, it felt like it should only be Tuesday. The week just flew by for us.

Yet on Friday, Thursday’s events seemed distant – like they happened a week or more before.

Do you ever feel this way?

Such is the paradox of time for BIGG goal-getters like you –

You’re accomplishing a whole lot,

but you rarely feel like you’re achieving enough.

So time flies by. Yet you’re doing so much, it seems like it’s standing still.

What’s the answer?

  • Take a deep breath

Breathe in deeply. And let it out. Feel your chest expand as you breathe life into your lungs.

Close your eyes. Do it again. A few times.

Go ahead – do it right now. We’ll wait. Breathe in…and out. In…and out.

Feel the relief as you exhale, as the stress flows out of your body.

  • Step away

Now step away. You don’t have to do it physically. Step away mentally.

Let go of everything you’re working on. Let go of all your problems.

Stop thinking. Not for long, but for a little bit.

  • Create space

Get outside your world. Create space between your actual self and your mental self. Pretend like you’re a friend looking in on the life of another friend.

Don’t feel guilty. We know it would be creepy if you actually did this with a friend. But we’re just telling you to do it with yourself. It’s perfectly normal.

  • Go back

We’re always told to forget the past. It’s bad advice.

Go back to the beginning of LAST year. What were you working on then? What challenges were you facing? What was your life like?

Now think about how much you’ve accomplished since then. Think about how far you’ve come.

Sure you may not be fully happy with the results. Ignore that for a minute.

  • Get real

If what you just saw was your best friend’s life and, if your best friend was feeling the time paradox, how would you counsel them?

Would you tell them to look at how far they’ve come?

Would you encourage them to kick it up a notch?

You might do both! There may be some areas where you would tell them to push harder and others where you tell them to revel in what they’ve done.

The point is – get REAL with yourself.

As BIGG goal-getters, we have high expectations for ourselves. So we often beat ourselves up when we should be patting ourselves on the back.

Research has shown that self-compassion is just as

important as self-confidence in achieving your BIGG goals.

We see a lack of self-compassion over and over again when we talk with people like you. We fight it ourselves!

It’s often because we compare ourselves to others. We see other people reaching levels of success we’re still dreaming about.

We ask ourselves what they have that we don’t. We feel like we must be missing something. Maybe we’re not smart enough. Maybe we lack some basic skill.

And you know what? That latter one may be true. There may be something you need to learn.

But you know what else? You can learn it. You WILL learn it. You’ll see more about that when we make the upcoming BIGG announcement.

In the meantime, cut yourself some slack! You’ve come a long way, baby! You’re gonna be a BIGG success!

Have you experienced the time paradox?

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Think Want, Need, Must About Your Time

pyramids We can place our spending into three categories – wants, needs, and musts. Last time, we applied these categories to money. Today we want to apply them to spending our time.

There’s a trap that’s easy to fall into when it comes to spending our time. We spend time how we want to, instead of how we need to. Then we end up with a must do.

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If you think of a pyramid, with wants at the base, needs in the middle, and musts at the top, we tend to focus too much energy at the bottom of the pyramid at the expense of the top.

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marylynnI may have a lot of things on my “must list” but I’ll zip over to Facebook to see what my friends are up to!

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georgeWhile we need to do quite a bit of research for Bigg Success, I can just get lost in it. I’ve already learned what I need to know, but I’m still interested so I just keep going.

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Why do we work on wants? Without a doubt, there are many reasons. The task at hand is difficult. It’s easier to work on something else. We may prefer to work on something else. It may be more fun to do something else. These are just a few of the reasons.

Start by defining

With our money, our musts are easy to determine – food, clothing, shelter and transportation. They’re a constant. With our time, our musts are much more flexible. They are things that are deadline-driven or crisis-related.

Our needs involve personal growth and interpersonal relations as well as activities that get us ahead of that deadline or prevent the crisis. Our wants then are everything else – generally activities that we like to do.

The time paradox

So why does this happen …

on those days when we have a full schedule, we get a lot done, but …

on days when we don’t have so much to do, we don’t seem to accomplish much?

When we’re required to really focus, we can get it done. When the pressure is off, we’re more likely to drift. We do what we want. If we’re not careful, if we don’t do the things we need to do, the needs move up to musts in the form of a pressing deadline or a crisis that could have been prevented.

Daily starter

So start each day with a blank piece of paper. Write “Musts” at the top, “Needs” in the middle, and “Wants” toward the bottom. Then, map out your day by making your list under each item. When you get done with your “Musts”, you can work on “Needs” and once they’re complete, you get to work on your “Wants”. It’s like a reward!

Musts, Wants, Needs – keeping these three categories in mind helps you best allocate your time!

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We really appreciate you reading our post today. You’ve heard of stepping stones … join us next time when we’ll discuss overstepping stones. Until then, here’s to your bigg success!

 

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