Fact: The average person will change careers 5-7 times during their working life according to statistics gathered from Careers Advice Online.
The pandemic seems to have accelerated a desire for change.
When you’re considering changing careers, you can quickly become overwhelmed with the abundance of information. But we have some good news for you! You can boil it all down to 4 simple questions.
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If we were to create an infomercial for this wonderful product, we’d want Billy Mays, the spokesperson of all spokespersons, to be our pitchman. We can hear him now …
Billy Mays here with a product that I’m excited to tell you about. Success in a Can. If you have problems staring you in the face; it will make them disappear without a trace.
For a demonstration, he could offer real-life example after real-life example.
So are you interested in knowing where you can buy this incredible product?
Well, it’s not sold in stores as the saying goes. You won’t find it online either. You see, it’s very exclusive. We can hear you now … you really want this product, don’t you? But there’s something you should know …
No one can get it for you. No one can give it to you. You have to get it yourself. But people who have used this product say that it is priceless.
So, we can hear you asking again … only more impatiently now … where can you find Success in a Can and how much it will cost?
Here’s the secret – you have to mix this magical solution yourself. The good news is that you already have all the ingredients.
Ingredient #1 – Self-awareness
Do you believe in yourself? We mean really truly believe deep down. Listen carefully to your talk – both your conversations with others and those internal chats you have with yourself.
How often “can” you? How many times “can’t” you?
Can’t is a limiting word. If you think you can’t, you’re right. And that’s just wrong!
Now we don’t think you should eliminate the word “can’t”, but you should be aware of it. You should limit its use to situations that don’t limit you. Because it reinforces what you truly believe.
Ingredient #2 – Self-assessment
Think about your strengths and your weaknesses. You may think that’s odd – why would you think about your weaknesses if you’re trying to limit the use of the word “can’t”?
That’s a good question. Let’s see if we can come up with a good answer …
It’s important to be realistic. Because Success in a Can doesn’t mean playing to your weaknesses. It means knowing what you’re best at. It also means working with other people doing what they’re best at because you know they can! There, how did we do?
Ingredient #3 – Focus
Focus on what you can do, not what you can’t do. Whenever you hear yourself saying that you “can’t” do something, quickly start thinking about what you “can” do about the situation. By focusing your thoughts on what you can do, you’ll feel more energy to work on the issue at hand.
Ingredient #4 – Reinforcement
When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself you can do it. When you face a difficult challenge, tell yourself you can find a way. When you see an opportunity, remind yourself that you can make it happen.
If you don’t believe in yourself, nobody will. Success in a Can does come with a price … you have to change the way you think. But if you do, you’ll pop the top for bigg success.
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The List Universe recently published their list of ten lost rules of etiquette. The one that really got our attention was their #1 reason – talking about money and possessions.
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One of the most important leadership skills you can possess is a high moral intelligence.
It may appear that bad behavior is rewarded in the corporate world, but it is usually a very short-term phenomenon. In the long-term, good behavior tends to pay off.
What makes ethical dilemmas particularly difficult is that they often involve conflicts between two or more deeply held beliefs. Consider this admittedly simple example …
A friend of yours just had a baby. He’s the most homely baby you’ve ever seen. While holding her new baby boy in her arms, your friend asks, “Isn’t he the best looking baby you’ve ever seen?”
Now you value honesty. But you also believe you shouldn’t needlessly hurt someone’s feelings. You have an ethical dilemma!
Ethical dilemmas flow upward
All of us are leaders, even if it’s just personal leadership. However, when you start managing others, it’s crucial to have a framework in place to deal with ethical dilemmas. Leaders must learn to apply their values, aligned with the values of their organization, to these situations. Ethical decisions are often trade-offs between:
Utility – the value delivered to the stakeholders in your organization
Rights – entitlement to something
Justice – equitable sharing of pain and pleasure
Because of these trade-offs, leaders must be prepared to deal with ethical dilemmas because these decisions tend to flow upward. So leaders must develop a framework to handle these inevitable challenges.
The benefits of an established framework
There are at least four benefits to putting a framework in place for making ethical decisions:
Efficiency – decisions can be made more quickly
Consistency – results in more systematic outputs
Payback – builds emotional goodwill with your constituents
Self-respect – you feel good about yourself when you look in the mirror
3 steps to solving ethical dilemmas
#1 – Know your values
There are certain values about which society agrees. For example, we tend to value honesty. Our discussion here isn’t designed to change your values – instead, it’s about applying them. Before you can apply them, you have to know what they are.
If you haven’t formally contemplated your values, or even if you haven’t thought about it for awhile, check out our article on core values.
Application: Create your list of core values.
#2 – Select a model
According to the book, Moral Issues in Business, ethical theories can be divided into two classifications: consequential theories (the formal term for these is teleological theories) and non-consequential theories (formal name is deontological theories).
The following is not a complete list of ethical theories, but it certainly covers the most significant ones for business people.
Consequential theories
With consequential theories, actions are judged by outcomes. If an action results in a positive result, it is morally right. If not, it is wrong. Egoism – An act is moral if it promotes your best long-term interest.
Strengths
Weaknesses
– Useful for decision-making
– Ignores wrongs
– Flexible
– Ignores interest of others
– Doesn’t build relationships
– Inconsistent (i.e. right for me, wrong for you)
– Can’t resolve conflicts of interest
Utilitarianism – An act is moral if it produces the great ratio of good to evil for everyone.
Strengths
Weaknesses
– Useful for decision-making
– May ignore wrongs
– Flexible
– May conflict with justice
– Recognizes interests of all
– Difficult to design rules
– Resolves conflict of interest
Situational – An act is moral if it creates the greatest amount of love.
Strengths
Weaknesses
– Humanizes decisions
– Lacks definite criteria for decision-making
– Rejects moral legalism
Non-consequential theories
According to non-consequential theories, a factor (single rule non-consequential theories) or factors (multiple rule non-consequential theories) other than the outcome should be considered when faced with an ethical dilemma.
Single rule
Golden Rule – An act is moral if you treat others the way you would wish to be treated.
Prima Facie Duties (Ross) – An act is moral if you fulfill your duties; if there is conflict, fulfill the duty to which you are most obligated. Prima facie duties include, but are not limited to: fidelity, gratitude, justice, beneficence, self-improvement, and non-injury.
Strengths
Weaknesses
– List of duties is educational in itself
– Difficult to determine weight of duties
– Sensitive to consequences
– No basic agreement on moral principles
Maximin Principle of Justice (Rawls) – An act is moral if it provides an equal amount of liberty for you and others, except when social or economic inequalities exist. In that case, the worst-off in society should benefit more from the act.
Strengths
Weaknesses
– Shows inherent respect for individuals
– Concerned only with justice
– Encourages social responsibility by all
– Assumes a high level of rationality
– Shows concern for less fortunate
– Assumes acting without self-interest
Proportionality (Garrett) – An act is moral if, in engaging in it, you don’t will a major evil to you or anyone else and if you don’t will, risk or permit a minor evil to yourself or anyone else without a proportionate reason.
Strengths
Weaknesses
– Synthesizes most useful theories
– Definitions are vague
– Provides flexibility without immorality
– Highly subjective
You probably noticed that all of these theories have weaknesses. So you may think that selecting an ethical theory is an exercise in futility. However, once you select the ethical theory that you feel is most closely aligned with your core values, you’ll find solving ethical dilemmas much easier. You can recognize the weakness of your method, while feeling confident in your process.
Application: Choose the ethical theory which most closely aligns with your values.
#3 – Use a problem-solving process
Now you know your values and you have a model with which to apply them. The remaining piece is to follow an orderly process to solve the problem, because not all ethical dilemmas are as simple as your friend and her baby that we discussed earlier.
We recommend that you SOLVE IT! That’s our acronym for the timeless problem-solving process. When you follow a process such as this to solve an ethical dilemma, or any problem for that matter, you feel good about your ultimate decision. You know you’ve considered all of the alternatives and chosen the best alternative under the circumstances.
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On the show, George said he once had a student who underperformed, primarily due to sporadic attendance. As the semester wound down, he found out the reason – his student had a severe acne condition. Most of the time, it was under control. But it occasionally flared up, and this student wouldn’t leave his apartment.
George said that, had he known what the problem was, he could have helped. The University has fantastic support services for students. But this student didn’t take advantage of it.
So why don’t people, who need help, ask for it?
Youth and inexperience Some people just don’t know any better. They may have never faced the situation before.
Insecurity Other people don’t ask for help because they lack self-confidence. They’re afraid they’ll be embarrassed or “look stupid”.
Ego Yet other people are too proud to admit that they’re in over their head.
All of which leads us to the common perception that keeps many people from succeeding:
They think that they will look weak if they ask for help.
George has a friend who is a multi-multi-millionaire. He owns many businesses. He has real estate all over the country. He travels extensively. He is a well-respected leader in the community.
But it hasn’t always been easy. A few years ago, he almost ran out of cash in his franchise business. He approached anyone and everyone within the franchise organization that he thought could help him. Together they found a solution that helped him get back on his feet!
The moral to these stories … only the strong ask for help.
So, assuming you’re strong enough, here are three tips to get the help you need.
#1 – Know who to ask. Don’t ask people who can’t help you, but ask anyone and everyone who can. George’s student may have talked to friends, but they didn’t know what to do. The businessman talked to the appropriate people with the franchisor. They helped make it happen!
#2 – Present your situation properly. People respond best to opportunities. So, whenever possible, frame your situation as an opportunity, not a problem. Obviously, this won’t apply to all situations.
The student didn’t have an opportunity to offer, per se. However, there are people at the University whose entire job is to help students in that type of situation. This was an opportunity to fulfill their mission.
The businessman presented an openness to consider anything, but a desire to help his franchisor solve their problems, too. He ended up partnering with them in yet another business, which led to his fortune.
#3 – Be willing to accept advice and act upon it or don’t ask in the first place. You’ll demonstrate that they’ve helped you by implementing their solution and letting them know how it goes. Otherwise, don’t waste their time.
Do you need help with a bigg challenge you’re facing? E-mail us at bigginfo@biggsuccess.com.We' love to help!
Our bigg quote today is by Ric Ocasek, the lead singer of The Cars.
“Refusing to ask for help when you need it is refusing someone the chance to be helpful.”
So “let’s go” ask for help. I usually get “just what I needed” to “shake it up” and create some “magic.”
Can you tell we’re bigg Cars fans?
The title of our next blog says it all – “Help! My Spouse Spends Too Much Money!” We’ll help one of our newsletter subscribers stop the bleeding without getting bloody! Until then, here’s to your bigg success!
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