The High Emotional Cost of Entrepreneurship

Entrepreneurs are heroes in our society. They are the BIGG risk takers who move economies faster a speeding bullet.

Entrepreneuring is a glamorous endeavor. Be your own boss. Set your own hours. Pay yourself what you’re really worth.

This is what society thinks life is like as an entrepreneur.

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The real world of entrepreneuring

Don’t be fooled. It sucks to own your own small business – at least at times.

You’ll feel stress like nothing you’ve ever imagined.

You’ll be tested in ways you never thought possible.

You’ll dig down to the bottom of your soul to find the strength to continue.

You’ll face doubt about your decisions, your abilities, and your existence.

But that’s just the easy part.

It will also affect your relationships.

Another late night at the office? It comes with the territory.

Working this weekend? Ah, five days a week is for wimps.

Miss another one of your kid’s events? You’ll make it up someday.

Only it feels like someday will never come.

Entrepreneurs accomplish amazing things with limited resources. The price?

It’s an emotional one. But it can be lessened.

You have to learn how to deal with entrepreneurial terror.

Entrepreneurial terror

We first saw this term in an article in Inc. magazine. It’s an old article – a couple of decades old.

But it’s still as relevant today as it was then. We highly recommend you read it.

The author, Wilson Harrell, makes it clear that he is one of us. He says:

“[Entrepreneurship] is unlike anything you have ever experienced before. No longer do you have to be bothered with such ordinary feelings as concern, or frustration, or even fear. Those gentle things are the least of your troubles now. You can put them away as a child puts away toys. From now on, you will be in the grip of a human emotion that the good Lord, or more likely his nemesis, created just for entrepreneurs.”

He goes on to make some great points about entrepreneurial terror:

• you can’t escape it
  
• it’s been kept a secret; no one talks about it
  
• it’s a constant companion; it doesn’t go away
  
• it’s a nightmare, only you’re wide awake
  
• its source is the fear of not standing out, of never being recognized for your work
  
• your first experience with it is the worst
  

The only way to really learn how to handle it is to experience it firsthand. It will seem unbearable at times. But you must keep going.

You will never welcome it but you will come to look at it with the appropriate contempt. If you survive the encounter.

If not, you will face it again when you try another venture. True entrepreneurs just have to be entrepreneurs.

What can you do about entrepreneurial terror?

He says he gets in his car and drives around cursing. We have found that sometimes it is best to handle it on your own.

He discourages sharing it with a friend or a loved one. They can’t possibly understand.

We agree. Of course, in our case, we’re in business together. So we have to at least some of it.

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This has to be the hardest part of entrepreneurship. I didn’t expect it. But I sure have experienced it. Sometimes it just haunts you. It’s really helped to go through it with George because he’s experienced it for years.

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You never get numb to it. However, you do learn to deal with it more easily. It’s never easy; but it does get easier.

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We also reach out to our closest friends and family, who are also entrepreneurs. They get it; they’ve been there. Just because most people don’t talk about it.

Another thing we do is hire coaches. We get so much benefit from working with these incredibly bright people. They been there, done that. So they know what we’re talking about.

You don’t have to go it alone. We’ve walked a thousand miles in your shoes. If you’re experiencing entrepreneurial terror, maybe we can help.

Send us an e-mail at bigginfo[at]biggsuccess[dot]com or leave a voice message at 877.988.2444. Tell us a little bit of what you’re going through. We’ll get back to you with some suggestions.

Thanks for checking in with us today. Until next time, here’s to your BIGG success!

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