We’re proud residents of the State of Illinois. We’re dismayed, however, that our great state has been getting some bad press recently because of the actions of our Governor, Rod Blagojevich. While he hasn’t been convicted yet of any wrongdoing, it appears that he’s in deep trouble.
A state of dissatisfaction
It’s rumored that he felt he had reached a stalemate in his career. He wanted to make more money. He even had aspirations of running for President. But even before this scandal broke, his approval rating was incredibly low (the last number we heard was 4%). If you look at the state of our State, you can understand why.
He looked at every opportunity for a stepping stone, which culminated in what appears to be illegal activity. That got us thinking – we all need stepping stones to help us get to the next level of success.
Overstepping the bounds
But there’s a fine line between a stepping stone and what we’ll call an overstepping stone.
We abuse our stepping stones when we overstep our bounds. It appears our Governor did this on at least three levels:
He says that he went against the advice of his venture capitalists. They feared losing employees, customers, and other investors if the bad news got out. Clinton found that being completely forthright strengthened his relationships with his employees.
One of my radio managers did that when our company wasn’t doing so well. I appreciated the honesty and how it put all of us on the same page.
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Honesty is high on most of our lists of core values. However, do we really think that we should always be honest?
For example, picture yourself standing with your best friend adoring her newborn baby boy. You think he’s the least attractive baby you’ve ever seen. She’s going on and on about him, when she asks you the dreaded question …
Isn’t he the best looking baby you’ve ever seen?
Would you tell her what you really think? Or would you pick your words carefully to avoid hurting her feelings?
Of course, this is a different situation than the first one presented – being honest with your employees, even when things are not going well.
But it illustrates that there can be a second value at stake – the desire to not cause undue harm.
Is there a reason to tell your friend what you really think? What good will come from it?
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I’ve come to believe strongly in open-book management. As a general rule, I think the more you share with your employees, the better. Having said that, I have found you also have to know your employees. Open-book requires a higher level of maturity from your employees. If that’s not present, sharing more just creates undue emotional distress.
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The reason an ethical dilemma is a dilemma is because two or more core values at odds with each other. These situations flow up to the leader. You have to find a good solution.
It’s a personal decision. There likely will be disagreement on the best way to handle it. That’s why it’s so important to have a framework in place for these kinds of decisions. This framework will help you:
be more efficient in making decisions like this
make decisions that are consistent instead of all over the board
build goodwill with all affected parties
respect the face you see in the mirror at the end of the day
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